Implement Verbal Harmlessness in Your Relationships

HI !
Welcome to Happiness@1KgPerDay

The Assumption:
At Happiness Incorporated (HI!), we believe Happiness is a nutrient.
A Mega Nutrient.
Vitamins could be sufficient in micro-units, but with Happiness nothing short of 1Kg would do.


The Act:
Happiness@1KgPerDay is an electro-human attempt to make sure we at HI! contribute towards your daily intake of 1Kg.


The Dose:
Implement Verbal Harmlessness in Your Relationships.

Many of your relationships would be extremely important - simply invaluable- to you.
Relationships, for all, continue to be the life-breath.

It follows that your life's quality and Happiness critically depends on relationships you weave.
Most of us apparently realize it; and thus most of us indeed work towards making our relationships more beautiful.

But often we find relationships turning 'unsatisfactory'.
Beauty begins to make way for rules and protocols - to start with. If destined to go worse, erosion of trust sets in gradually. Deterioration sets in.

We struggle within our capacity to stem the tide of unsavoury events. We do everything we can to bring back the happy days. From pleading over unending telephone calls to undertaking emotionally laden discussions.
Yet something seems missing very many times. A move to make things naturally healthy.

Verbal Harmlessness may be the thing for you. Verbal Harmlessness can beautifully transform relationships that at some point turned sour (for no good reason many a times).

Verbal Harmlessness works in relationships where things were not meant to proceed the way they actually proceeded. Thus it is suitable in cases where the foundation of the relation is based on sincerity - but misunderstanding is calling the cards somehow.

Verbal Harmlessness as a strategy implies reducing the unconscious, anger-generated, hurt-based responses on your part. These and many other responses in relationships are ' verbally harmful responses'. The exact way such verbally harmful responses are reduced may vary with issue at hand and nature of the relationship. However, the strong commonality between all such measures of achieving Verbal Harmlessness is to invoke (and recall into the moment) the crux on which the relationship is based. If the relationship bound you, made your life beautiful at one point- it had a crux. The crux still lingers deep down, just that it gets lost in what is called as the 'responsibility diffusion'- the issue of 'who does it first'.

In fact, Verbal Harmlessness is not just a strategy to make relationships work. It is a tribute from you, as an equal participant in the relationship. 'Strategy'- it is being called - to make doubly sure that you feel its practical and useful.

Verbal Harmlessness is a tribute in your intention; strategy in your implementation.


--HI !

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