The Dose: Verbally Harmless...are You?
Your being regular with The Dose now (re) introduces You to the next good thing in Life. ' Reintroduce' because this is of course a revisit to some good stuff learned along the way, one we have been talking about.
Ways You can act in and fill your life with Happiness. Or, preferably the other way round.
Acting, as You are on many fronts in life, do all along keep wondering on "Know, Act, See" - the Basic Fundament (to Happiness??)
The Dose is just the "know" part. It may even be less—at just being a "pointer" to the process of discovering, knowing about the simple possibilities of staying Happy.
You surely, today or tomorrow, are going to act towards staying Happy. Of course, the Happiness Desiring Machine works too hard to desire Happiness from your so many every-days. But poor is its delivery indeed for everyone not just You.
Can You act now? Let's turn to an opportunity to Act towards Happiness. Let's learn to act on Verbal Harmlessness.
The Dose 5: Verbal Harmlessness & Your Relationships - Life's quality revolves around the relationships that you weave. Both- relations You choose to enter into and relationships You are born into.
Verbal Harmlessness is a difficult phrase but a simple act. An act that takes You a step forward towards a satisfying relationship. The one act that differentiates 'commitment' from 'contract' in all your relations.
Verbal Harmlessness—simply allowing the anger to subside (it's not difficult. Can you count till 10, in around 10 seconds...then come on you can master-manage your anger), the hurt-words to disappear, letting negativity dissolve before being effused out on your loved ones.
Inflicting pain through revenge has no place in the most beautiful of your possessions—your loved ones. That is, in case of a misunderstanding, You offer your maturity and empathy– not your revenge. And You do it not for "the other" but for Yourself. Coz it's [You]r relationship. You don't hurt back. You remain Verbally Harmless– believing in the wisdom of the moment and strength of [You]r relation.
The mere reduction of (often) unconscious, anger-generated, hurt-based responses acts as a tribute from you, as an equal participant in any relationship.
And then relations become satisfying.
Did we emphasize enough? To Act is to Achieve.
— Happiness Incorporated !
Sunday, December 16, 2007
Verbal Harmlessness - Your Tribute to Relationships
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